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	<title>VelmaGallant.com &#187; Purpose</title>
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		<title>The Queen of JOY interviews Tomar Levine August 19, 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2010 21:52:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Velma Gallant</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Welcome Changes Radio]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Just a few months ago I interviewed Tomar Levine for Welcome Changes Radio.&#160; FANTASTIC Interview!&#160; </p> <p>Tomar enjoyed being on the show enough that she invited me to interview her for her teleseminar event, Blooming at Midlife.</p> <p>The teleseminar event is a series of three free teleseminars on the topic of Midlife Blooming.</p> <p>Two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just a few months ago I interviewed <a href="http://welcomechangesradio.com/2010/06/02/tomar-levine-download/" target="_blank">Tomar Levine</a> for <a href="http://welcomechangesradio.com" target="_blank">Welcome Changes Radio</a>.&#160; FANTASTIC Interview!&#160; </p>
<p>Tomar enjoyed being on the show enough that she invited me to interview her for her teleseminar event, <a href="http://www.yourtimetobloom.com/events/teleclasses/" target="_blank">Blooming at Midlife</a>.</p>
<p>The teleseminar event is a series of three free teleseminars on the topic of Midlife Blooming.</p>
<p>Two of the teleseminars are already completed, but you will be able to listen to the playbacks.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Teleseminar 1:</strong> Completed Thursday, August 5th, 4pm PT, 6pm CT, 7pm ET</p>
<p><b>Guest Host:</b> Nina Price of MidlifeWithoutCrisis.com</p>
<p><b>Topic:</b> The Joy of Midlife Blooming and Late Blooming</p>
</blockquote>
<blockquote><p><b>Teleseminar 2:</b> Completed Thursday, August 12th, 4 pm PT, 6pm CT, 7 pm ET</p>
<p><b>Guest Host:</b> Catherine van Wetter of ToTheHeartoftheMatter.com</p>
<p><b>Topic:</b> How the Recession Can Help You Bloom</p>
</blockquote>
<blockquote><p><b>Teleseminar 3:</b> Thursday, August 19th, 4pm PT, 6pm CT, 7pm ET</p>
<p><b>Guest Host: </b>Velma Gallant of WelcomeChanges.com</p>
<p><b>Topic: </b>How to Bloom as Your True Self Using the Four-Quadrant Model</p>
</blockquote>
<p>To find out more and to sign up for this free event, including listening to the playbacks, go to <b><a href="http://www.yourtimetobloom.com/events/teleclasses/">http://www.yourtimetobloom.com/events/teleclasses/</a></b></p>
<p>Dream BIG!</p>
<p>Velma Gallant   <br />The Queen of JOY!</p>
<p>PS ~ Don’t forget to download the <a href="http://welcomechangesradio.com" target="_blank">Welcome Changes Radio</a> interview of <a href="http://welcomechangesradio.com/2010/06/02/tomar-levine-download/" target="_blank">Tomar Levine</a> too!</p>
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		<title>The Queen of JOY! on Crystal Clear Speaks</title>
		<link>http://www.velmagallant.com/2009/12/17/the-queen-of-joy-on-crystal-clear-speaks/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2009 05:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Velma Gallant</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Crystal Clear Speaks]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Joe Rumbolo]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Joytastic Women]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Kimberly Marooney]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Passion]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Purpose]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Transition Times. Queen of Joy]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Tonight I was the guest of Joe Rumbolo’s on Crystal Clear Speaks.&#160; It was a two hour show, and I was the guest for the first hour.&#160; My friend, Kimberly Marooney was the second guest.</p> <p>All in all it was a fun show, and we talked about Transition Times, the gifts in our pasts, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tonight I was the guest of Joe Rumbolo’s on Crystal Clear Speaks.&#160; It was a two hour show, and I was the guest for the first hour.&#160; My friend, Kimberly Marooney was the second guest.</p>
<p>All in all it was a fun show, and we talked about Transition Times, the gifts in our pasts, passions, purpose, and much much more!</p>
<p>I hope you enjoy it and find value.</p>
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<p>Please leave your thoughts, and what you took away from the show!</p>
<p>Dream BIG!</p>
<p>Velma Gallant   <br />The Queen of JOY!</p>
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		<title>My Past Led Me Here</title>
		<link>http://www.velmagallant.com/2009/12/11/my-past-lead-me-here/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Dec 2009 18:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Velma Gallant</dc:creator>
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		<category><![CDATA[Challenge]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Courage]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Every Day Joy]]></category>
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		<category><![CDATA[Past]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Purpose]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Rejuvinate]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Reprogram]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I completed an exercise the other day.&#160; I asked myself a question, and then I sent out a request to friends and family asking them the same question.</p> <p>What are 5 Strengths I have that you see in me?</p> <p>I wrote four, and then after receiving a couple of responses to my email request, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I completed an exercise the other day.&#160; I asked myself a question, and then I sent out a request to friends and family asking them the same question.</p>
<blockquote><p>What are 5 Strengths I have that you see in me?</p>
</blockquote>
<p>I wrote four, and then after receiving a couple of responses to my email request, added two more.</p>
<ol>   </ol>
<ol>
<li>Listening </li>
<li>Brainstorming </li>
<li>Looking for the Gift in experiences </li>
<li>Talking </li>
<li>Courage </li>
<li>Supportive </li>
</ol>
<p>As I looked over these, I realized it was my Past that led me here.&#160; I would not be who I am were it not for the experiences I had.</p>
<p>It was the experiences that were challenging that created me, more so than the experiences that were joy-filled.</p>
<blockquote><p>Challenge creates Wisdom.</p>
<p>Challenge creates life-changing (life-creating) decisions.</p>
<p>Challenge creates our Strengths.</p>
</blockquote>
<p>The Joy-filled experiences serve a purpose too!&#160; They are the resting periods between the challenges.&#160; They rejuvenate us.</p>
<p>This is why it is so important to be skilled at finding JOY in your Now moments—the Every Day Joy.</p>
<p>Yes, I said skilled.&#160; It’s a skill you grow.&#160; It’s a skill you build on.&#160; It’s a skill you learn.</p>
<p>Over the years most people learn how to find the problems, what’s wrong, what’s not working.&#160; It’s something we picked up from observing others.&#160; We overheard the adults in our growing years, and it began with repeating what they said.&#160; Children often do this as the belief is they will receive approval from the adults if they repeat what the adults said.&#160; This is how the mind begins programming for problems and complaints.</p>
<p>The beauty in this awareness is it’s the same technique used to reprogram for JOY.</p>
<p>If you want to start this simple (not necessarily easy) process of reprogramming yourself for JOY, send out the same request I did.&#160; Ask your friends and family “What are 5 Strengths I have that you see in me?”&#160; Answer this question yourself too.</p>
<p>You’ll be pleasantly surprised with the answers you receive.&#160; </p>
<p>For me, this turned out to be another beautiful exercise in receiving.&#160; I couldn’t just pass off the gift my friends and family were giving me.&#160; They took the time, care and love to send me a thoughtful reply.</p>
<p>Your Past brought you here too—the Challenges and the Every Day Joys.</p>
<p>What are the Strengths you cultivated from your challenges?</p>
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		<title>I Disappeared so I Can Find Myself.</title>
		<link>http://www.velmagallant.com/2009/10/15/i-disappeared-so-i-can-find-myself/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2009 20:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Velma Gallant</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Thoughts]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[choice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[joy]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Not that long ago someone posted an article of mine, What To Do When You Don’t Know What to Do.&#160; She had lost a lot of work through a computer issue, and was blue about it.&#160; In commenting to her I had said something along the lines of “Sometimes we need to loose who [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Not that long ago someone posted an article of mine, <a href="http://www.velmagallant.com/2008/12/11/what-to-do-when-you-dont-know-what-to-do/">What To Do When You Don’t Know What to Do</a>.&#160; She had lost a lot of work through a computer issue, and was blue about it.&#160; In commenting to her I had said something along the lines of “Sometimes we need to loose who we think we are in order to become who we are truly meant to be.”</p>
<p>Today, someone hacked into one of my favourite Forums and deleted a number of profiles, including mine.&#160; Everything I have ever written there was lost.&#160; My forum posts.&#160; Blog posts.&#160; Friends.&#160; All of it.&#160; I completely disappeared!</p>
<p>They managed to recover my profile, but that’s it.&#160; I’ve been found, but I’m just a shell.</p>
<p>Or…</p>
<p>I’m an open vessel.</p>
<p>Really, with every single experience, we do have choices.&#160; We can walk around our situation and look at it from many angles.&#160; Are there angles that feel better?&#160; Are there angles with more information? Are there angles you can see/feel better from?</p>
<p>Certainly an “Open Vessel” feels much more appealing than “Just a Shell”.</p>
<p>In the big scheme of things, loosing my data from a forum is not really a tragic experience.&#160; I’ve had more life affecting experiences than that. BUT…it did happen.&#160; </p>
<p>What if I used this situation to serve me?</p>
<p>I am an Open Vessel.&#160; What shall I fill myself up with?</p>
<p>What are those things that bring me joy?</p>
<p>What are those things that give me a sense of purpose?</p>
<p>What are my values?</p>
<p>What kind of a Vessel am I?&#160; Do I hold certain things, and others pass on through?&#160; </p>
<p>Am I a clear vessel?</p>
<p>What Vibration am I tuned to?</p>
<p>After all, I am an Open Vessel.&#160; I get to choose!</p>
<blockquote><p>What do you choose?</p>
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